#66: Make an effort to be objective, especially when it’s most difficult.

Date Completed: 9/24/2010

We don’t always agree. And, we don’t have to. But when we disagree, we have an opportunity to do the right thing – to listen, be objective and show respect. Depending on how heated the moment becomes, instinct might drive some to lash out or chose words unwisely. I believe that the true depth and quality of a relationship, though, can be revealed in the way that two individuals seek to resolve conflict. Think for a moment about the last argument you had. What was your goal? How did you act? How did you react? If given the opportunity to handle it again, would you respond differently? I am checking this item off THE LIST because when faced with an opportunity to make the right decision, act responsibly and stand up for what I believe, I was mature, objective and respectful. It was difficult at the time, but we make choices every day, whether it’s the little things or big decisions. Each decision has consequences – and each decision can have great rewards. Robert Frost’s quote below resonates in my mind:

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I – I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.”